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Old 07-12-2012, 10:22 AM   #2
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Originally Posted by Christelle View Post
Hi !
I was told that Navajos have a matriarchal society. Is that frequent or do you have patriaral societies too ?
Connected to this question, I wonder what is the place of women in your respective tribes.
Thank you for your explanations.
While this website is for and about Native peoples and a specific way of gathering, it is not per se, a site to give you an internet degree in Native studies.

If you are wondering about anything with respect to us, I suggest you conduct your own level of inquiry and read some of the many tomes written about us by those that felt we were lab specimens and informants.

On a personal note, I'm am rather tired of white women who jump all over the notion that some of our societies, clans, houses and families run through the mother and immediately equate that to feminism. Once again, there is always an air of needing to study us as if we are a lost people or people that no longer live in the current, modern societies imposed upon us.

Why must you white folks always try to equate us to something in your world? You do that with our belief systems - you immediately want to equate what we believe to a Christian value and if you can't we get pegged with the classification of being a pagan.

When you people are not trying to make us out to be like you, you are trying to be us. I can't think of any other racial group that is the subject of extreme hobbyists the way Europeans pretend to be NDN. I never seem to stop being amazed at the numbers of Germans and French people on this site who think it's ok to study us as if we were a science or archeology project and then dress up as us all under the pretense that you simply "love our way of life".

Like so many that come on here, when you discover that we aren't trapped in a single moment in time and preserved just for you to observe, study, emulate and steal from, you all seem to get upset at us because we aren't the real Indians you want us to be.

When we all don't have a bluebird singing off our shoulder, you say we aren't authentic enough for you. Worse, you decide who is and who isn't NDN enough for you. I love it when a white person says, "You don't look Indian" compared to their white skin and blonde hair.

Christelle, you are a guest here. You have been pushing and shoving your way into the site with little regard for the way we do things here. Your first day was to solicit friendship requests from people that you hadn't said one thing to prior to your request. In my culture, it is considered rude to refuse a request from anyone - however, you seem to be unaware of the obligation you have placed on many of us. You have waded into our lives with little understanding of us and now you want us to explain us to you.

I think before you type one more post that you do some serious reading. You can even start with the thousands of posts here on this site - there are many, many threads on good books to read, TV shows to watch, movies to view and lectures, Native academic journals, law reviews and scholarship essays to read.

Your first statement that you were "told something", indicates that you either were gossiping or that your informant that told you this information did not know enough to continue on to answer your questions that you have posed here.

Why not go back to your original informant and ask them what they meant? If they didn't know anything about us, then why are you even having a conversation about us - all you are appearing then to be doing is spreading and perpetuating rumours and half truths.
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