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Gaining better selfesteam / relationship issues

I've had this issue for the longest time and I realy want to change it.

There was a girl I liked that had no idea that I liked her because i was horrible at conveying it and she ended up going out with my friend. The more I think about it is because I don't have much self worth and think i'd ruin it anyway and im getting tired of thinking this way and it's ruined alot of opportunities.

Does anyone have any suggestions?
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theres very little you can do now about the issue with the chick you liked. you should have gawn for her when you could but doing the would could shouldas is not going to help you. best off to learn from this and don't be so shy on the next time. grab and snag lol i was in same predicament i was in a relationship /engagement and wasnt a very healthy one to boot. there was this guy( not the one i was with) i had wondering eyes for and i still think about him every now and then. but i figured if he wanted to be with me then he should have tried to find me when i moved back from california to ohio. he didnt and that was end of that. i tried to get in touch and he never answered. so live learn.
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I've had this issue for the longest time and I realy want to change it.

There was a girl I liked that had no idea that I liked her because i was horrible at conveying it and she ended up going out with my friend. The more I think about it is because I don't have much self worth and think i'd ruin it anyway and im getting tired of thinking this way and it's ruined alot of opportunities.

Does anyone have any suggestions?



Native Americans and the Chinese have something in common: both cultures have traditionally grown their hair to waist length or longer and the hair is a similar straight-ish texture. This similarity in traditional hair appearance is important because the cosmic definition for "hair" is "social image to others."




This similarity in traditional social image to others means that Traditional Chinese Medicine and Chinese Astrology is especially easily applicable to Native Americans.




Your question pertains to romance.




Chinese astrology addresses romance in a very easy way: if you want romance you have to sleep with the top of your head pointing to a specific compass direction (your feet pointing the opposite direction).




The romance sleeping direction is different for each person because it varies according to your birthdate.




Below I provide instructions on how to perform your own Chinese Astrology reading for free online.




This free Chinese astrology reading will assign you 4 compass directions which give you GOOD luck in the following categories:




Career success (example: become the expert in your field. The only potential downfall is that it is often lonely at the top so your relationships might dwindle as you strive for excellence. An example is the nerd at school who has no friends at all. Or the CEO who has no wife.)

Health (example: May help you cure a chronic illness.)

Romance (example: This compass direction is not just love romance with a partner, it also applies to general friendships. The compass direction also applies to career networking if you are working in human resources for example. It might also apply to extended family networking. It might also apply to just general friendships for hanging out and having fun.)

Personal Development (example: Internal reflection, meditation, going on "vacation" type of feeling. When people feel they need "personal time off," this is the direction to tap into that concept.)




This free Chinese astrology reading will assign you 4 compass directions which give you BAD luck in the following categories:




Mishaps (example: mischief, blocked endeavors)

Five Ghosts (example missed opportunities, gossip. People might see ghosts and other ghouls who go bump in the night. So if you experience a haunting, check to see if you are doing something in your 4 bad luck compass directions.)

Six Killings (example: house burns down in a fire, car explodes in a fire, flood, gossip, mental illness, major accidents requiring hospital visits, legal entanglements like divorce or lawsuits) and a person might become alcoholic.

Total Loss (example: bankruptcy, burglary, death from a major accident, feeling suicidal, etc.)




As you can see, the Chinese Astrology says that there are 4 GOOD luck directions and 4 BAD luck directions.




You can use this information in many ways and below are a few examples of how to apply the recommended compass directions:

1). Sleep with the top of your head (your pillow) facing the recommended compass direction.

2). Sit with the BACK of your chair facing that recommended compass direction in your office, while studying, taking an exam or in class. It is the BACK of the chair because if you were to recline the chair it would be like sleeping on your back with the top of your head pointing in the recommended compass direction. So remember when you sit down at the dinner table, sit on a couch to watch tv, sit on a chair to use the computer, or sit down to play video games, your back must be toward the recommended compass direction.

3). If you are a warrior and you are in a battle in which you wish to avoid death, your BACK must never ever face your 4 bad luck compass direction lest you incur a fatal injury. This is the secret to success in martial arts that only the elite few warriors know about.

4). If someone has filed a lawsuit against you, make sure you are not sleeping in your 4 bad luck compass directions.

5). If someone wants to steal your land or steal your personal property, make sure you are not sleeping in your 4 bad luck compass directions. This might mean that the entire community needs to individually check to see that they are not sleeping in their personal 4 bad luck compass directions.

6). If you fall ill from a flu virus, maybe you can heal faster if you sleep in your Health compass direction for a while.




This Chinese Astrology applies to what house you can buy. The Chinese Astrology which deals with buying a house facing one of your 4 good luck compass directions is called "Feng Shui" and you can research that online. If you live in a bad luck compass direction house, Feng Shui may have suggestions on how to lessen the bad luck. You hear stories of entire families experiencing a demonic haunting inside their houses. The haunting may be because the house front door is facing a bad luck compass direction for the members of the family that actually see the demonic entity in that location. If some family members do not see the demonic entity, that house location is their good luck compass direction. If the ghost appears only in the yard/garden outside of the house (not inside the house), that may be because the entrance/driveway of the land property is facing a bad luck compass direction. One way that the Japanese have historically implemented Chinese Astrology Feng Shui concepts is that the Ancient Palaces of the Royal Family would keep any gate entry of the land closed/blocked if it faced a bad luck direction to prevent evil forces from entering.




This Chinese Astrology applies to what food you can eat. A beef steak has different qualities than a spinach salad. This Chinese Astrology concept which deals with good food vs bad food is called "Traditional Chinese Medicine" and you can research that online.






Below is the free website for calculating your own Chinese Astrology 4 GOOD luck compass directions and
4 BAD luck compass directions: Kua Number | Feng Shui Kua | Find Your Feng Shui Kua Number | Kua Number Calculator

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Hi!

My suggestion is that you research what your kua number is by using a free online "kua calculator."

With the calculator you receive your Chinese astrology which then tells you which direction you should sleep in your bed (for example head facing north can give good ROMANCE luck to some people based on your birthdate).

I'll try and get more details for you.

Google search kua calculator.
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Ok, this is part two of my response.




Once you learn your Kua Number, the number will assign you to an element (fire, water, earth, wood or metal).




Once you know your Kua Number and your element, you can do many things such as:

1: sleep with the top of your head pointing your good luck direction. The kua number is based on your birthdate)

2: wear clothing that is your good luck color

3: get a hobby or career which is your good luck hobby/career

4: date people who are your good luck person (based on birthdate)




ETC.




The Kua number also tells you what your BAD LUCK sleeping direction is. You experience dire consequences if you sleep with the top of your head pointing a direction which is bad for your birthdate. Some symptoms are depression, alcoholism, lawsuits, divorce, gossip, mischief done by others on to you ETC. So now you know why it is good luck for every person on earth to know their Kua Number. Chinese Astrology is not just for the Chinese because it is based on birthdate.




The Kua number tells you what your GOOD LUCK sleeping direction is. This helps you with your career, networking relationships, family relationships, physical health and can help you avoid insomnia.




So have fun researching your Kua Number and I hope this information helps!




I am awaiting moderator approval on three other messages but I will paste Part One of this response just in case:





Hi!

My suggestion is that you research what your kua number is by using a free online "kua calculator."

With the calculator you receive your Chinese astrology which then tells you which direction you should sleep in your bed (for example head facing north can give good ROMANCE luck to some people based on your birthdate).

I'll try and get more details for you.

Google search kua calculator.
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Native Americans and the Chinese have something in common: both cultures have traditionally grown their hair to waist length or longer and the hair is a similar straight-ish texture. This similarity in traditional hair appearance is important because the cosmic definition for "hair" is "social image to others."




This similarity in traditional social image to others means that Traditional Chinese Medicine and Chinese Astrology is especially easily applicable to Native Americans.




Your question pertains to romance.




Chinese astrology addresses romance in a very easy way: if you want romance you have to sleep with the top of your head pointing to a specific compass direction (your feet pointing the opposite direction).




The romance sleeping direction is different for each person because it varies according to your birthdate.




Below I provide instructions on how to perform your own Chinese Astrology reading for free online.




This free Chinese astrology reading will assign you 4 compass directions which give you GOOD luck in the following categories:




Career success (example: become the expert in your field. The only potential downfall is that it is often lonely at the top so your relationships might dwindle as you strive for excellence. An example is the nerd at school who has no friends at all. Or the CEO who has no wife.)

Health (example: May help you cure a chronic illness.)

Romance (example: This compass direction is not just love romance with a partner, it also applies to general friendships. The compass direction also applies to career networking if you are working in human resources for example. It might also apply to extended family networking. It might also apply to just general friendships for hanging out and having fun.)

Personal Development (example: Internal reflection, meditation, going on "vacation" type of feeling. When people feel they need "personal time off," this is the direction to tap into that concept.)




This free Chinese astrology reading will assign you 4 compass directions which give you BAD luck in the following categories:




Mishaps (example: mischief, blocked endeavors)

Five Ghosts (example missed opportunities, gossip. People might see ghosts and other ghouls who go bump in the night. So if you experience a haunting, check to see if you are doing something in your 4 bad luck compass directions.)

Six Killings (example: house burns down in a fire, car explodes in a fire, flood, gossip, mental illness, major accidents requiring hospital visits, legal entanglements like divorce or lawsuits) and a person might become alcoholic.

Total Loss (example: bankruptcy, burglary, death from a major accident, feeling suicidal, etc.)




As you can see, the Chinese Astrology says that there are 4 GOOD luck directions and 4 BAD luck directions.




You can use this information in many ways and below are a few examples of how to apply the recommended compass directions:

1). Sleep with the top of your head (your pillow) facing the recommended compass direction.

2). Sit with the BACK of your chair facing that recommended compass direction in your office, while studying, taking an exam or in class. It is the BACK of the chair because if you were to recline the chair it would be like sleeping on your back with the top of your head pointing in the recommended compass direction. So remember when you sit down at the dinner table, sit on a couch to watch tv, sit on a chair to use the computer, or sit down to play video games, your back must be toward the recommended compass direction.

3). If you are a warrior and you are in a battle in which you wish to avoid death, your BACK must never ever face your 4 bad luck compass direction lest you incur a fatal injury. This is the secret to success in martial arts that only the elite few warriors know about.

4). If someone has filed a lawsuit against you, make sure you are not sleeping in your 4 bad luck compass directions.

5). If someone wants to steal your land or steal your personal property, make sure you are not sleeping in your 4 bad luck compass directions. This might mean that the entire community needs to individually check to see that they are not sleeping in their personal 4 bad luck compass directions.

6). If you fall ill from a flu virus, maybe you can heal faster if you sleep in your Health compass direction for a while.




This Chinese Astrology applies to what house you can buy. The Chinese Astrology which deals with buying a house facing one of your 4 good luck compass directions is called "Feng Shui" and you can research that online. If you live in a bad luck compass direction house, Feng Shui may have suggestions on how to lessen the bad luck. You hear stories of entire families experiencing a demonic haunting inside their houses. The haunting may be because the house front door is facing a bad luck compass direction for the members of the family that actually see the demonic entity in that location. If some family members do not see the demonic entity, that house location is their good luck compass direction. If the ghost appears only in the yard/garden outside of the house (not inside the house), that may be because the entrance/driveway of the land property is facing a bad luck compass direction. One way that the Japanese have historically implemented Chinese Astrology Feng Shui concepts is that the Ancient Palaces of the Royal Family would keep any gate entry of the land closed/blocked if it faced a bad luck direction to prevent evil forces from entering.




This Chinese Astrology applies to what food you can eat. A beef steak has different qualities than a spinach salad. This Chinese Astrology concept which deals with good food vs bad food is called "Traditional Chinese Medicine" and you can research that online.






Below is the free website for calculating your own Chinese Astrology 4 GOOD luck compass directions and
4 BAD luck compass directions: Kua Number | Feng Shui Kua | Find Your Feng Shui Kua Number | Kua Number Calculator
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