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Old 02-02-2012, 02:56 PM   #3181
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I TOTALLY AGREE....I am a broke native balln on a buget and I most def DO NOT live for free....I work hard for the money and I pay my taxes and That white man named Sam does't ever give me anything back in return...UGH...I owed last year and wondering if ima owe this year....i get NO type of help...No state help...single mom working two jobs supporting my own!!! So Im with you...NDN's do pay taxes and not all NDN's are lazy living off the Gov!!
In case there are a few folks out there that still think we all live tax free... here's the true or false site and their answer:

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Old 02-02-2012, 04:16 PM   #3182
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I agree. Maybe we need to compose a come back Piggie song? lol
well with my dance training i can do the routine, and you can bead the smexy lil outfits. we just have to find someone to sing. i feel like gritz could spit some words out and candae can sing. i feel like she prolly can sing. lol

i hope he checks in, and that everything smooths out. maybe his wife did not appreciate our site. he needs to fix that and make her feel better. and then get back her and flirt around with us again! lol
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:53 PM   #3183
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I agree. Maybe we need to compose a come back Piggie song? lol
But where would you send it? His tee pee has been cleaned out!
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Wow, after reading all that, I forgot what this thread was about

Oh, that's right... Things that get on ppls nerves: Men who don't follow-thru wit their words
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@yaahl Thanks for the info!
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Not having a connection to facebook at work....LOL
oh i hate that, all cause this on chick had to go and spill a bunch of stuffs about someones housing status cause she was jelly! grrr ruined it for the rest of us!!!
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Re: Favoring one g-child over another

That is so wrong! One of my g-parents was bad about that.

Something else - parents who play favorites with their own children

Both sets of my grandparents were guilty of that one!
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On the subject of taxes:

People who think that:

1. all illegal immigrants are agricultural workers, and
2. illegal immigrants pay no taxes.

Illegals hold jobs in all sorts of areas, from agricultural all the way up to professional.

Yes, some hold jobs that pay them cash, under the table (my guess is that it is in no significantly greater percentage than citizens who work under the table). Many, many others work construction, as custodial staff in hotels, cooks in restaurants, sales clerks in stores, etc.. Most of them have withholding taken out of their paychecks - yep, if they're gettin' a paycheck they pay SSI, FICA, etc.. There's a whole industry devoted to fake i.d.'s and social security cards/numbers for illegals. Ya really don't need a social security card for much other than giving a copy to your employer, so taxes can be taken out.

And, I especially don't want to hear about illegals not paying taxes in states that have no income tax, like Texas! Most of the state's money comes from sales and property taxes. So, they're paying into the state coffers in exactly the same way as every other resident of Texas.
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And finally, for today - related to Pigheaded's post about women not saying why they're mad.

Women who think they can behave the same way at work as they behave at home. I had to deal with this just the other day.

You are at work. I am not your husband. I am not your boyfriend. I am not your son, brother, etc. (and neither are your co-workers). I am your boss.

When you are asked if you need assistance with a task, saying "no," then expecting help anyway b/c "everyone should know" is not appropriate.

If I ask you if you need help, and you say no, that means I won't assign anyone to help you. I can't read your mind, and I ain't even gonna try. Be professional and express your needs.

I actually had an employee come to me last week, complaining that another employee wouldn't help her with a task. She told me flat out that the other person asked her if she needed help, but she said no, she was fine - but the other person should've been able to see that she needed help!

She didn't like it when I told her it was her own fault for not accepting help when offered, and even more inappropriate that she's trying to get another employee in trouble for it!

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Sorry, ladies. In my office women outnumber men 6 to 1, so unless it has to do with the bathroom, just about any ranting I do about work will be about women. That's just the numbers.
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And finally, for today - related to Pigheaded's post about women not saying why they're mad.

Women who think they can behave the same way at work as they behave at home. I had to deal with this just the other day.

You are at work. I am not your husband. I am not your boyfriend. I am not your son, brother, etc. (and neither are your co-workers). I am your boss.

When you are asked if you need assistance with a task, saying "no," then expecting help anyway b/c "everyone should know" is not appropriate.

If I ask you if you need help, and you say no, that means I won't assign anyone to help you. I can't read your mind, and I ain't even gonna try. Be professional and express your needs.

I actually had an employee come to me last week, complaining that another employee wouldn't help her with a task. She told me flat out that the other person asked her if she needed help, but she said no, she was fine - but the other person should've been able to see that she needed help!

She didn't like it when I told her it was her own fault for not accepting help when offered, and even more inappropriate that she's trying to get another employee in trouble for it!

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Sorry, ladies. In my office women outnumber men 6 to 1, so unless it has to do with the bathroom, just about any ranting I do about work will be about women. That's just the numbers.
it's okay @RDNKJ!! We out number men here at my work too...and that's who I complain about also....hahahaha.
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And finally, for today - related to Pigheaded's post about women not saying why they're mad.

Women who think they can behave the same way at work as they behave at home. I had to deal with this just the other day.

You are at work. I am not your husband. I am not your boyfriend. I am not your son, brother, etc. (and neither are your co-workers). I am your boss.

When you are asked if you need assistance with a task, saying "no," then expecting help anyway b/c "everyone should know" is not appropriate.

If I ask you if you need help, and you say no, that means I won't assign anyone to help you. I can't read your mind, and I ain't even gonna try. Be professional and express your needs.

I actually had an employee come to me last week, complaining that another employee wouldn't help her with a task. She told me flat out that the other person asked her if she needed help, but she said no, she was fine - but the other person should've been able to see that she needed help!

She didn't like it when I told her it was her own fault for not accepting help when offered, and even more inappropriate that she's trying to get another employee in trouble for it!

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Sorry, ladies. In my office women outnumber men 6 to 1, so unless it has to do with the bathroom, just about any ranting I do about work will be about women. That's just the numbers.
Geez, what a major dingbat! LOL!If help is offered, take it or not, but take responsibility for your decision.
What annoys me at work is when the office manager makes a list of things to be done and checked off every shift, including hers, and she just checks her stuff off without doing it. That's ok. I have camera that has detailed EXIF data. I don't want her job-no way-, but she needs to come down off her high horse a peg or two. LOL!
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Geez, what a major dingbat! LOL!If help is offered, take it or not, but take responsibility for your decision.
What annoys me at work is when the office manager makes a list of things to be done and checked off every shift, including hers, and she just checks her stuff off without doing it. That's ok. I have camera that has detailed EXIF data. I don't want her job-no way-, but she needs to come down off her high horse a peg or two. LOL!
Why did you call RDNKJ a dingbat? He was just venting.

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Why did you call RDNKJ a dingbat? He was just venting.

You are such a smarta$$-or think you are. LOL! BTW, I like the new kitty avatar.
So, what kind of beads did you buy? I want some 13 3 cuts in a certain shade of pink, but by the time I get them, I will be done with the cuff I"m working on. Just realized today I wanted them.
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