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  • jayBvelumptuous
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    hello

    hey hey hey
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  • jayBvelumptuous
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    like this

    another one of my favorite pictures. check this out!
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  • jayBvelumptuous
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    Re: honor

    Originally posted by jayBvelumptuous
    where is the honor these days, you would think a person would want to do right and honor the tradition. I know I am trying to be somewhat traditional so far of my knowledge. I know I can take care of my own. I would be willing to take care of my man if he can take care of the stay at home dad responsibilites. I also would like to be that stay at home mom either way I would be happy to work with someone to get things done and be established together. Make it easier on each other and live life. I want somethin so simple.

    I appreciate those that can do their jobs and honor thy partner.

    How do you do it? The controversy of what a good person is and should be, is only inconsequential. What matters is how you deal with each other and do things together. The real is, how you treat each other, and show you affection. The one on one is the down time, and you really only sleep together. In a busy life maintaining you lives together is a tough task and is overlooked by daily regiment. If the other person can say I've been thinking of you and appreciate you it is all worth while.
    failure is not the falling down but the staying down.

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  • jayBvelumptuous
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    honor

    where is the honor these days, you would think a person would want to do right and honor the tradition. I know I am trying to be somewhat traditional so far of my knowledge. I know I can take care of my own. I would be willing to take care of my man if he can take care of the stay at home dad responsibilites. I also would like to be that stay at home mom either way I would be happy to work with someone to get things done and be established together. Make it easier on each other and live life. I want somethin so simple.

    I appreciate those that can do their jobs and honor thy partner.

    How do you do it? The controversy of what a good person is and should be, is only inconsequential. What matters is how you deal with each other and do things together. The real is, how you treat each other, and show you affection. The one on one is the down time, and you really only sleep together. In a busy life maintaining you lives together is a tough task and is overlooked by daily regiment. If the other person can say I've been thinking of you and appreciate you it is all worth while.

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  • keya_win20
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    Re: Hell tell me about it...

    Originally posted by Dat1NdnGuy
    I HEARD that...but trust me...It could ALWAYS be worse...keep faith.:D
    ain't that tha truth

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  • DeusExMachina
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    Gache, man, you are right. Our ancestors would prolly want nothing to do with us the way we behave like we haven't got a place or a civilization. We N8ives Morally and Behaviorally aren't any better than the whites or the Taibonases(blacks) or any of the other ill mannered, lying, foul savages that have come over here.

    It really makes you think........
    Thanks, Gache

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  • Dat1NdnGuy
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    Originally posted by Gache
    Men have we fallen to the level of scum.

    I Totally agree with the rest of your post, but Scum?....If Ndn men are scum whats that make Ndn Women?...are ndn women somehow BETTER then Ndn men?....Just curious thats all...


    :)

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  • Blackbear
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    Re: you are so right

    Originally posted by jayBvelumptuous
    I feel what you are saying, I believe it to be true, sometimes I don't know what is good for me. I know I am a good woman cause I take care of my business and my home. I have always made my family a home cooked meal and made sure they have clean clothes, I know I am a good woman because I put my familys needs befor my own, and regardless of circumstances I will give myself unselfishly and continue to do so. I am now seeing I want that same thing, someone to give themselves unselfishly. I know my time will come, I just don't see many guys jumping at the chance to take me out. That can be very discouraging.
    Oh I hear ya girl... I'm a big girl myself (not saying you are big, just pointing out myself) and some guys seem to think they need a runway model or she ain't worth having...it sucks I know, and alot of them may even have feelings for you and think you are all that, but cause they got this stigma about how a woman "should" look, they are missing out. Then again, women do the same thing. I could'nt tell you HOW MANY times I dated only a specific kind of guy cause I wanted to "prove" that I was good enough and good looking enough to get the "prize guy" who usually were'nt any kind of a prize I might add. I quickly dumped that idea after I grew up and realized that regardless of what I look like, I AM good enough for any man and in the same respect, any man should be good enough for me as long as he treated me well and loved me.
    So don't let it disourage or get you down when they say no, they need to do some growing up and get some self realization. And you need to get just a little attitude honey... let them know that you are well worth that second look!!! But not too much... arrogance is so unflattering LOL!

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  • Gache
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    I know lots of people men and women who fit that criteria. Its just that most indian people have lowered their standards than the past when a liar was kicked out of the nation and noone tolerated the destruction of harmony. Now people just live for themselves. They are slaves to their wants and lusts and dont care about the old ways.

    In the old days whites could never compete with us morally and ethically. Now indian women are saying they got to find a white man because no good indian men. Man have we fallen to the level of scum.

    Our ancestors would not even accept us in their home and let us eat with them.

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  • jayBvelumptuous
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    you are so right

    I feel what you are saying, I believe it to be true, sometimes I don't know what is good for me. I know I am a good woman cause I take care of my business and my home. I have always made my family a home cooked meal and made sure they have clean clothes, I know I am a good woman because I put my familys needs befor my own, and regardless of circumstances I will give myself unselfishly and continue to do so. I am now seeing I want that same thing, someone to give themselves unselfishly. I know my time will come, I just don't see many guys jumping at the chance to take me out. That can be very discouraging.

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  • Blackbear
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    Dat? Who do you "pizz" off?? LOL!!!


    JayB.... hang in there gal, took me 27 years to find "the guy" and he was well worth the wait. Don't settle for less than you want, and I don't mean be shallow on looks and such, I mean the qualities you want in a man.
    Make sure he treats you good and makes you want to treat him the same cause it's a two way street and when you both try hard to make the other happy as you feel, it's going the right direction.
    Make sure you both know if you want kids or not before you get too serious, and if you guys cannot agree on kids or income, don't wait for him to change his mind, move on.
    And always remember, just because you feel they are right for you, does'nt mean they are... the one that is right for you will come along when you least expect it and he'll feel the same about you.

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  • Dat1NdnGuy
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    Originally posted by Gache
    So why dont all you women get together and say no more sex until you men straighten up. I keep hearing how men suck and its probably true from what I see alot. But hey women dont put up with it.

    I see so many of my friends date lousy men. But they keep making excuses for them. Im not picking on you just the fact that its time for men to grow up.

    good men dont act like gansta rappers
    good men dont drink or do drugs
    good men dont hang out at bars
    good men dont hang out with the crew
    good men dont lie "ever"
    good men dont cheat
    good men work to support their families but not too much that they never see their families
    good men love the Creator
    good men know when to fight and when to take it
    good men cherish their culture and work to preserve it
    good men play with their kids
    good men know when to be romantic
    good men discipline their kids and guide them in the good way
    good men are quiet sufferers not whiners
    good men put their family first, respect elders, love kids and most of all treat their women as special people


    Ok...I have a knack for pizzin folks off, so i'm gonna try not to get too deep into that one. Most of that is just totally crazy...Just in my lil opinion...besides, A whole lot of chicks are doing tha VERY same thing. So I pose this question: What makes a good WOMAN?...Not a girl, or a chick or whatever, but a WOMAN. Bare in mind, it's just my dinky little opinion, but we're all just human, and I have YET to meet ANYONE man or woman that could EVER meet up to the list you just put up there...

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  • jayBvelumptuous
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    good men

    I say that is the ideal, and what is expected of men but reality be that most men don't know how to be good men, and for the most part all the good men are taken. Let this be known, I see all the good men and they are with the good women and we got to work with what is left. I say there are more good women then there are good men. I might have to date a white man, just cause I can train them and get what I need from them, I don't want to resort to doing so but there is nothing left. My resources tell me there are plenty of good guys it's just the good native men are taken. Or in trouble with the law. I think my options for dating are low considering my consequences, I have a child and I am always broke. I like guys buy I am always the friend. I kinda just want to have that soul mate come and find me. I got no time to look or date or even take a peek. Any ways like you said all the places I look that is where all the good men aren't. I wouldn't know where to look for one anyways. I am just going to wait. They will come and find me.

    :p

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  • Gache
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    So why dont all you women get together and say no more sex until you men straighten up. I keep hearing how men suck and its probably true from what I see alot. But hey women dont put up with it.

    I see so many of my friends date lousy men. But they keep making excuses for them. Im not picking on you just the fact that its time for men to grow up.

    good men dont act like gansta rappers
    good men dont drink or do drugs
    good men dont hang out at bars
    good men dont hang out with the crew
    good men dont lie "ever"
    good men dont cheat
    good men work to support their families but not too much that they never see their families
    good men love the Creator
    good men know when to fight and when to take it
    good men cherish their culture and work to preserve it
    good men play with their kids
    good men know when to be romantic
    good men discipline their kids and guide them in the good way
    good men are quiet sufferers not whiners
    good men put their family first, respect elders, love kids and most of all treat their women as special people

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  • jayBvelumptuous
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    sick of

    so sick of to many things
    I need a vacation and want to get out of this place
    I am tired all the time and want a good man to take all this on
    I wanted a man to be there for me, make me feel secure and not so in need
    I feel like I spend most of my time by myself
    I wanted to be with someone that loved me and wanted to help
    where is that man that would take care of me
    instead here I am alone and taking this on
    I was starting to believe all the good men don't want me, I get stuck with what is at the end of the barrel all the pickn was done and now I have to work with what I got. damn shame, I picked the one that is the hardest to work with too. He got me all messed up and stressed out like I don't have enough on my back. He is the father of my child, I am loosing hope in men all together. I fear that tv romance was never ment for me. I was ment for these mental mind games and ridicule.
    It's a damn shame some men are grown and aren't really men at all they just pretending they got it going on and they don't.

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