Significant others

[saukpuppet]

what is the worst thing that your husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend can do to get under your skin?

one thing for me is...when we're having a serious conversation..he blurts out something off the wall.

ex. (me) Honey, could you please pick up after yourself. I'm one person and I feel like I have all the responsiblities in my back pocket. So can you help me out? What will you do to improve this situation?

(him) :) I'm going to by a country/western CD:Idea And I want a instrument.......oh my God...:JawDrop look at the time! Joe Schmo is on!!:Jumping:

(me):Thinking :Mad Did you even listen to me?

[ndn_butterfly]

When he would come home after drinking:Mad He'd be a real pest, sleeping on my side of the bed and stealing my fav. pillow. I'd have to literally push him off the bed so he'd get the hint but thats about it

[jazzy95]

Re: Significant others

Originally posted by saukpuppet
what is the worst thing that your husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend can do to get under your skin?

one thing for me is...when we're having a serious conversation..he blurts out something off the wall.

ex. (me) Honey, could you please pick up after yourself. I'm one person and I feel like I have all the responsiblities in my back pocket. So can you help me out? What will you do to improve this situation?

(him) :) I'm going to by a country/western CD:Idea And I want a instrument.......oh my God...:JawDrop look at the time! Joe Schmo is on!!:Jumping:

(me):Thinking :Mad Did you even listen to me?

The worst thing that bugs me is when he BREATHES! AAAYE.

The inability for properly aiming into the toilet bowl would be my thang.

[lakotajingledancer]

the worst thing is like when we are fighting or arguing & i wanna talk about it he just ignores me or says stuff sarcastically!!!grrrr

[Ojidanowe]

When he tells me I didn't tell him something when I told him a couple of times! The man never listens!!!

[David Schneider]

Go to the Bible and learn why God put a curse on Adam. "Because you listened to your wife . . . ." Yup, that's what it says. What caused the proplem between Arabs and Jews? God said to Abraham, "Because you listened to your wife . . . ." Read it; it's there.

[jazzy95]

this was supposed to be a fun thread

Originally posted by David Schneider
Go to the Bible and learn why God put a curse on Adam. "Because you listened to your wife . . . ." Yup, that's what it says. What caused the proplem between Arabs and Jews? God said to Abraham, "Because you listened to your wife . . . ." Read it; it's there.

Uhhhhh the bible is nothing but Christian propaganda and an assimilation tool.

Like I would even consider dat isht as a source!

[Tibiki Kinew]

Bible thumping never sovled anything,, actually it did for me, it turned me away from so called christianity!

As far as this thread goes, it really must suck to be stuck with all those loosers, I only wish that one of you gals were closer to my area! I not only pick up after myself, I love cooking and hate it when I get crowed while cooking, so please sit down relax and let me do my thing,,, cooking with fun!

Alive and lovin' food and yes my door is open so grab a plate of food!

[David Schneider]

Good morning. Now that I have lit your fire, I have to confess that I do whatever my wife tells me. still, she can tune me out when she is distracted as I do her.

Love, peace and hippie beads.

[bushy_braids]

breaking eye contact during a serious conversation to look @ the tv or something else
grrrrrrrrrrr! :Mad :Yell

[bushy_braids]

Originally posted by Ojidanowe
When he tells me I didn't tell him something when I told him a couple of times! The man never listens!!!

i kno huh!? never pays attention to details...

[Tibiki Kinew]

Hey bushy,,, ever hear of taking the remote and turning the freaking tv off! That would get full attention, besides how can you compete with a football game,,, sorry even half the guys I know are in that same boat they ignore everything that goes on when they watch tv, so much infact that the house could nearly burn down around them. Ignorance is no place to start a one sided conversation, so yes I hear you too!


Get their full attention kill the tv!

[bushy_braids]

or just kill them! hahha...jks!
i know better than to bring up something when sports is on, cause chances are - i wanna watch the game too! it's like takin' a kidd to a toy store & tellin' him not to play w/the toys, it just doesn't happen that way!

[Native Snow Angel]

men are wired different, there is no changing that.

[Tibiki Kinew]

talk about wiring.... you got it there ina nut shell, but we are all wired differently, that is what makes humanity so great, darn if we were all the same we would not only get bored but it would get irritating when everyone thinks and acts exactly alike. No just find the common ground and above all ,,,,, never forget one thing.

Talk with your partner not AT them!




Share your thoughts and make sure you understand each other, if you don't understand ask questions.

If it is just plain ignorant behaviour then it is time to upgrade your partner software!!!