Question 4 The Indian Woman

[Dancin by the bay]

We try and treat you women really good and fair. I buy you anything you want. Talk to you with respect. All the action items in the "treat good" topic. But still you walk all over us men. How can we treat you good but then we get the shaft?


Let's talk and get this out in the open. Don't be intimidated I won't bite (unless you want me to)

[saukpuppet]

maybe ur just insecure;)


or maybe ur not finding the right women and maybe we're not finding the right men......

[Dat1NdnGuy]

If a chick has nuffin better to do than bich and whine about ALL men EVERYWHERE....than obviously they aren't finding the right man....

[saukpuppet]

thats true for the men too

[MishkomekinaakIkwe]

If anyone finds the answer to this million dollar question, would you please PM me! I belive it goes both ways so the answer might be of a benefit to the women also!
:p

[superndngyrl]

Re: Question 4 The Indian Woman

Originally posted by Dancin by the bay
We try and treat you women really good and fair. I buy you anything you want. Talk to you with respect. All the action items in the "treat good" topic. But still you walk all over us men. How can we treat you good but then we get the shaft?


Let's talk and get this out in the open. Don't be intimidated I won't bite (unless you want me to)

I believe that maybe u keep giving the wrong girl all your lovin.

Know the person better before you invest your heart.

[sarah_sarah_sarah]

What! You can't think all women are like that. Your from probably picking the ones all into you buying them things like you have on your quote there. That you'd buy them anything. Got some thing to tell you dancin by the bay get away from all that salt water and find some one not all into material things.

[BurBz]

Re: Question 4 The Indian Woman

Originally posted by Dancin by the bay
We try and treat you women really good and fair. I buy you anything you want. Talk to you with respect. All the action items in the "treat good" topic. But still you walk all over us men. How can we treat you good but then we get the shaft?


Let's talk and get this out in the open. Don't be intimidated I won't bite (unless you want me to)

You can't buy a women's TRUE HEART AND TRUE LOVE if you think you can then you must be a total asss!!

[Awful_Mnom_Woman]

One thing I thought I would have to give advice to my son was, someone has to be in charge in the relationship. In other words, be a strong man but don't let her run everything. It should be equal, reciprical. I have seen instances where when women have responsibility for everything it doesn't work out, the women seem to lose respect for the man. In other words, men, don't wimp out, carry your weight too. I believe women have to be strong, but so do the men.

[*Kwe_Zee*]

I believe you can only be treated as badly as you LET it. Only YOU can let someone walk all over you. Why would you want to be with someone that uses you like that anyways? I'd be lookin for another person that treated me good. If you're single for a lil' while, so what? Better to be single than in a bad relationship.

[Gah-Gah!]

Re: Question 4 The Indian Woman

Originally posted by Dancin by the bay
We try and treat you women really good and fair. I buy you anything you want. Talk to you with respect. All the action items in the "treat good" topic. But still you walk all over us men. How can we treat you good but then we get the shaft?


Let's talk and get this out in the open. Don't be intimidated I won't bite (unless you want me to)

Your so siwwy dancin by the bay!! Take charge guy, Take charge! :karate:

[Dancin by the bay]

Maybe I am a little insecure but is buying things the wrong way to express my feelings for a woman. If I don't buy things she might feel I'm not giving. I think I push for being liked and buying things seems like a good way to do it. Do you think thats not taking charge? I don't want to be a azzzz like you said but I don't want to be wasting money on someone who isn't into me the way I am them.

[MaoriTanga]

Maybe dont go by stuff for her too much. She might get used to the finer things and expect them all the time.


Try taking her out to new places. Places that new to you as well. Live and learn together.

[WhoMe]

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Dancin':

It sounds like you keep buyin' women cars and they keep driving away!

*LOL

You can't buy a woman's love . . .

"It has to be earned!"

[moonshadow]

Some guys try to impress the ladies too much by what they can buy or give them..and some like to just show off their talents like "see what I can do" or "see what I have"...but I think to keep a woman you have to show your true self...good and bad...and even though your lady might be strong and independant..open that door for her, check that oil in her car, cook her a meal after she has worked all day...not just take her out to eat or buy her something...show her that you can take care of yourself and her and she just might start taking care of you!! ;)