Proposal turned down

[EducatedNdN]

I proposed to my woman on Saturday and she turned me down saying I am doing it for the wrong reason; to get back at my ex gf. Twice she turned me down and we have a kid. Who has turned down a proposal or been turned down? Man this hurts.

[Singing Otter]

:( sorry to hear that man.... Hope it works out.

[Tibiki Kinew]

Obiviously there are open wounds that need to heal. Wait and let "her" bring up the subject, you tried so now it is her turn!

Patience will be your main goal now!

Good luck.

[theepowwowchic49]

Is she right?

Is your woman right about you porposing to her for the wrong reason? ARE you trying to get back at your ex by trying to pull the old "make them jelous" game and your NOW woman sees thru dat? and will your ex even care if you were to marry this new woman?
my ex left me and at first it was tough as shiit not to have him but now its a breez i dont think i would go marry another guy to hide the pain thats what my 40s are for. :Chatter

[theepowwowchic49]

one more thing

dId oyu let her keep the ring even though she turnt you down so maybe if she looks at it everyday on her finger she can think about it an maybe change her mind?

[saukpuppet]

is she native?
she probably hates the way u put down other natives when they attend a powwow:Mad :Chatter

[theepowwowchic49]

Originally posted by saukpuppet
is she native?
she probably hates the way u put down other natives when they attend a powwow:Mad :Chatter

word on that.

[tradish_wiyan]

Is your relationship with your ex a factor in your relationship with your "woman" now? Is your woman the jelous type? Might be time for a heart to heart talk with your woman and clear the air as to why she turned you down. Hope things work out for you man.

[eyesrbrown4areason]

from the looks of earlier posts you made on here, it does appear that you are still in love with your ex, is that true? and if so, why would you want to marry someone else until you are over her? I'm not badgering you, just curious...:)

[tradish_wiyan]

Originally posted by eyesrbrown4areason
from the looks of earlier posts you made on here, it does appear that you are still in love with your ex, is that true? and if so, why would you want to marry someone else until you are over her? I'm not badgering you, just curious...:)

I agree eyesarebrown. From reading his post on the "Scars" topic, he does seem like he has feelings for his ex.

11-05-2003 11:50 AM
The largest scar I have is on my heart from the woman of my dreams who ran to the arms of someone else. When he screws up though I know she'll be back.

Just tryin ta help you out educatedndn...look at the obvious.

[MaoriTanga]

11-06-2003 11:16 AM
I've been married a couple time and they were both interracially mixed. I been with a couple full bloods and my kids are mixed. it boils down to who and what you are willing to go for in a relationship. I had them all at this point a woman has all the parts I want but the features are the only differences. Pila




Seem like you get marry often man. I read your past posts to.


Maybe she know about past marriages and does not want to be wife #?. Why you want to marry and not just hold out and be a couple for a while and see how you feel about your ``fiancee`` over the months you get to know her more?

[ANNA NICOLE]

You know EducatedNdn, I have been on the turning down the proposal side before. And you know it was for a good reason, He just wanted to get back at some girl that he snagged when we were broke up. I told him...um, no, i dont think so...i think you're really doing this because 'she' is mad at you. and i'm not going to make myself miserable or be subject to your 'shes better than you because...' bull crap, ya know what i mean? maybe someday when she feels you are over your ex, she'll give you the chance to be her husband?? But til then work on yourself to be a better person to her.....just my two quarters....

[Destined to be alone]

I bet it hurts. Thats to bad.O U T T I E:Angel2

[David Schneider]

Got turned down more than once. Every time the gal made the right decision. Move on down the road. I now have a real wife. We will grow old together.

[wannabeUrNo1Snag]

i wuz propsed to once...but it wuz a last ditch effort on his part to try n keep me cuz he knew he eff'd up n wuz gonna break up with him...we both couldn't even say we luffed each other...dontcha jus hate it when guys do things for the wrong reasons??