My New Place

[Smokin' Ace]

Well - for the first time in a really long time - like 11 years - I have my own place again. My kids and I have found a really cool place and are enjoying it immensely, while my husband and I figure out some things....mainly about life.....:)

All I can say is - what the hell took me so long???

I am loving my space - my kids are loving it...I am finding that I am doing so much more writing....so much that I called John today and asked him to bring my other computer over to the new house. My daughter and I decided we would share hers - not working.....she is 14!!!!

I have to admit I miss seeing my husband everyday, but feel like we have to have space ...

Is there anyone else who has made like a major move like this - any advice??

[tradish_wiyan]

Good luck smokin!!!:Angel2 :D I don't have any advice on things like this, just wanted to wish you good luck and HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!!!!!!

[Smokin' Ace]

Thanks - we are putting up our tree tonight....:)

[wannabeUrNo1Snag]

i know wut u mean...i moved into my new place...this past summer...1st big move...i wuz all for it...but for me times are gettin a bit tough..single mom...bills n such...there have even been a few times i wanted to come back home...i enjoy my own space also...lucky for me my family is helpin me out so much...so i say congratz on gettin ur new place!!...lol i've noticed with me...its alot "quieter"...not so much drama...

[theepowwowchic49]

good luck

and don't lock yurself out cuz there will be nobody to let you in now:Chatter

[wyo_rose]

That's great, Smokin' Ace. It's SO nice to have your own space. I just threw my exhusband out (again) and I just LOVE having my room back.

Plus the bathroom stays much cleaner.:Chatter

[Gah-Gah!]

Oh!! How nice, :clap: congratulations Smokin Ace.

Have fun in your new place and absorb all the space you have now and maybe missing each other will bring you and your hubby closer again!! :2: :2:

[Smokin' Ace]

All of u are so right - experiencing all those things....

I am not predicting what is going to happen - I just want to learn to enjoy this new space and nurture it - because I don't know what the future holds. I love my husband very much - but he is much younger than me (12 years) and I believe that if you love something set it free.....you know the deal.

We have gone thru alot together in our 11 years together - things that alot of couples may not have survived - and we are still bonded with our son - but I feel that both of us having our space will allow us to grow more healthy - regardless of the outcome. And yes - there is no more drama - not waiting to argue etc - and the bathroom stays way cleaner - until my son gets all his toys and puts them in the bathtub. :)

Thanks to everyone....peace.

[NDNQt]

I'm glad you are enjoying it! You know we love ya~

[ghostrider]

yea your own space and freedom, till the kids outta school and working and still trying to hang around , eating your food and using yor utilites and forgetting that they should be helping :D :D :devil I gotta little house warming/Christmas present for you. I ship it to you in a wood crate, about 7 ft long with air holes, ifin I don't ship him back to his Richmond mama:D :devil

[ac_miss]

Congratulations on getting your own place.

My husband and I were married in June, and soon after got a house of our own. We were living with my husband's younger brother, and he used the living room as his own personal living space even though there were 2 vacant rooms to choose from.

Anyway, again CONGRATS!!

[sarah_sarah_sarah]

My roomie is geting on my last nerve ever since Skydome. I wan tto throw her to the snow piles and have her chill! Then I'd have my own plac4e.

o yeah congratulations on your new place.

[ojibwaysweetie]

Congrats on your new place, smokin. You'll have fun! :D

[Smokin' Ace]

Hey - I am having a blast. Having my own "space" is awesome! And in the back of the house, there is nothing but fields - and plenty of places for my son to play - I feel very good.

[bushy_braids]

having your own place is the best!
i recently moved outta my parents crib - in a place i can call my own (w/my sis) and i lubb it!
not that i was every really @ home before... but still... now that i have my own place to call home, i find myself being a homebody and wanting to invite others to come over instead of going out. i'm definitely enjoying my "own" place now, so i kno how it feels ace! good luck and enjoy yourself too!
;)